Lessons in Finding Yourself in Motherhood
At Q for Quinn, we’re lucky to connect with so many thoughtful, inspiring parents—people who are redefining what it means to raise kids in a way that’s intentional, grounded, and filled with care.
This spring, we sat down with Lauren: a long-time customer, mother of four boys, homeschooler, entrepreneur, and lover of all things natural and outdoors. After spending two years living in Switzerland, her family recently returned to Canada—but the habits, values, and pace they discovered abroad have stayed with them.
In between homeschooling lessons and running her business, Lauren shared what motherhood has taught her—about love, identity, and letting go.
“There’s really no limit to love.”
We started by asking Lauren what motherhood taught her about love—and her answer was as honest as it was beautiful.
“It’s taught me that it’s a lot harder to define than the way you understand it before kids,” she said. “It’s easy to give examples of the lengths you’d go for your children because you love them, but it’s really hard to put it into words.”
For Lauren, love has become something lived, not spoken—a fierce, quiet constant that exists in both the chaos and calm of everyday life.
“There are these pieces of you walking around in this world with their own minds and personalities, and you want to help them grow and learn and set them on the right path—but you also never want them to leave you.”
Motherhood as a Mirror
Becoming a mom changed not just the way Lauren loves—but the way she sees herself.
“It’s surreal when you transition to motherhood. All of a sudden you’re responsible for these precious little humans. It really makes you reflect on who you are and how you can be better for them.”
Twelve years into this journey, she says she still finds herself thinking, Am I setting a good example? Am I practicing what I preach? Am I showing them how to live a happy life?
“It still blows my mind some days that I’m responsible for raising four little humans.”
Making Space for Herself
Like so many moms, Lauren admits she didn’t always prioritize herself in the early years. But with time came the realization: caring for herself is part of caring for her kids.
“I’m a better mom when I take care of myself,” she told us.
Now, that means nourishing food, movement, and alone time to reset.
“I’m better for my kids when I’m able to experience some of the things that make me feel like me—outside of my role as mom.”
What She’s Let Go Of Since Becoming a Mom
We asked Lauren what she’s let go of since becoming a mom—and what she doesn’t miss.
“Late nights and crappy food. I’ve let go of using products filled with chemicals, and I don’t miss that either.”
But not everything has been easy to leave behind.
“I’ve had to let go of having a clean car… I actually do miss that one.”
Twelve years in, she says it’s been a process—letting go of what didn’t serve her, and eventually bringing back what she truly loved.
Lauren's Q for Quinn Picks
Lauren’s family has been wearing Q for Quinn for years—especially our socks.
“My younger kids live in the organic cotton socks, and the merino wool socks are our favourite for all our outdoor activities.”
One small perk that makes a big difference in her busy household:
“I love that with the kids’ socks we can do so much mixing and matching because we are ALWAYS losing one sock out of the pair.”
A Reminder
Lauren’s story reminds us that motherhood isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s a path that stretches you, humbles you, teaches you to hold on and let go—all at once.
It’s not about perfection. It’s about presence.
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